The Canker of Victimhood

A canker is an ulcerous condition or disease.  Victimhood is truly a canker that infects the soul distracting one from their true amazing self.  

Those in victimhood:

  • think everything is being done to them.
  • believe they are powerless to do anything about their situation.
  • place blame outside of themselves.
  • rationalize and justify themselves.
  • refuse to look inward and take responsibility for themselves.

How Does Victimhood Canker the Soul?

Simply put, a victim mindset prevents one from progressing.  It dams the process of spiritual growth. Lack of progression is possibly the biggest canker, but not only does it do that, it keeps the soul filled with anger, resentment, bitterness, blame of others, criticism of others, and the list goes on.

Is There a Benefit to Victimhood?

There certainly is a perceived benefit to victimhood.  It tends to attract sympathy.  At least initially. It also gives one a way to excuse oneself from action.

Think closely on the following quotes.

"When your victimhood is your empowerment, recovery is the enemy, and working on 'individual change' becomes counterproductive, even dangerous to your identity."

                 ~ Tammy Bruce


"But victimhood was seductive, a release from resonsibility and caring.  Fear would be transmuted into weary resignation; failure would no longer generate guilt but, instead, would spawn a comforting self-pity."

                    ~   Dean Koontz

Other Resources As to why You May be Staying in Victimhood:

At What Price?

But ask yourself, ......   What are you giving up by staying in victimhood?  What is the price you are paying?



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At what cost?

“What is the return on investment of being wedded to your suffering? What do you receive from stewing in victim consciousness? Righteous indignation or an excuse not to change?”

     ~  Lisa Cypers Kamen

Why Get Out of Victimhood?

The benefits of getting out of victim mentality are the exact opposite of why a person is in victimhood.  Instead of thinking everything is being done to you, you now take responsibility for yourself and that is empowering!

Getting rid of the negative attitudes of blame and criticism now allows you to fill that with positive energy instead opening the way for personal growth.  That is liberating!

The energy that was being spent on staying in victimhood can now be used for good and in serving others. 

How Do You Get Out of a Victim Mentality?




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Disclaimer:  The information provided here is for educational purposes only, and is not intended as diagnosis, treatment or prescription for any disease.  The decision to use, or not to use, any of this information is the sole responsibility of the reader. Please consult with a licensed health care practitioner if you are dealing with a serious disease or illness.



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